Boundaries and manifestation
There comes a point in healing where you love yourself enough to no longer allow others in your life to do you harm. That doesn't mean you won't get triggered but you can observe it without judgment and be at peace with it, loving and accepting yourself anyway and setting boundaries so that they no longer can alter your well-being. You no longer people please and youre no longer an archetype of victim or rescuer etc It's really liberating to realise that the only person you have to please is you. The only person you SHOULD please is you. If everyone focussed on themselves imagine how awesome the world would be? It sounds selfish but it's the most selfless thing anyone can ever do. This sounds really simple but if you can observe your life and go, what causes me stress? Ok work causes me stress, but I still like it and life's supposed to be a bit stressful. or you dont think you can find a better job. or a better relationship even and the excuse is, its not always s...